6 Reasons Why Your Blog Comments Don’t Get Approved (And How to Fix It)

Why blog comments do not get approved

You spend time commenting on other blogs, but your comments never appear. Usually it is not bad luck: something in the comment looks like spam to the blog owner or to their spam filter.

Blog commenting is still a good way to connect with other bloggers and get noticed, but not for SEO links. Since 2019, WordPress marks comment links with rel="nofollow ugc", so they pass little to no SEO value. Comment to build relationships, and your comments will get approved far more often. Here are 6 reasons comments get rejected, and how to fix each one.

1. You Used Keywords in the Name Field

Names like “Best SEO Tips” or “Cheap Hosting” are the first sign of spam. Most bloggers delete them without reading.

Fix it: use your real name. If you want, add your brand after it, such as “Istiak from RoadToBlogging,” but your name alone works best.

2. Your Comment Is Too Short or Generic

“Great post, thanks for sharing!” could be posted on any article, which is exactly why bloggers treat it as spam.

Fix it: read the post and add something: your experience, a tip, a respectful disagreement, or a real question. Two or three thoughtful sentences are enough.

3. Your Comment Looks AI-Generated

Bloggers now see a flood of polished but empty comments written by AI tools. They summarize the post and add nothing new, and they get deleted fast.

Fix it: write in your own words and mention something specific from the post or your own experience.

4. You Added Links

Links inside comments, especially to your own posts, often send comments straight to moderation or spam, and many blog owners remove them.

Fix it: put your site in the Website field only. Share a link in the comment only when it genuinely helps and you know the blog owner.

5. You Have No Profile Picture

Comments without a profile picture look less trustworthy, and if a spam filter like Akismet catches your comment by mistake, a familiar face makes the owner more likely to rescue it.

Fix it: set up a free Gravatar with a clear photo. It appears on most WordPress blogs automatically.

6. Your Comment Is Rude

Disagreement is welcome on most blogs. Insults, swearing, and personal attacks are not.

Fix it: disagree politely and explain why.

Still Not Approved?

  • Some blogs approve comments manually and take days to review them.
  • Some blogs close comments on older posts.
  • Read the blog’s comment policy, or contact the owner if you think a real comment was caught by mistake.

Running your own blog? See how to stop spam comments on WordPress.

Frequently Asked Questions

Do blog comments help SEO?

Not through links. Comment links are nofollow and marked as user-generated content. Comments help by building relationships and visibility with other bloggers.

Why did my comment disappear after I posted it?

It was probably held for moderation or caught by a spam filter. Many blogs approve first-time commenters manually.

How long should a blog comment be?

Two to four sentences that add something specific are usually ideal.

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  1. Philip Verghese Ariel Avatar
    Philip Verghese Ariel

    Hi Istiak,
    It is indeed a great joy to be here today, I am here today via one of the Facebook shares of your page by Enstine Muki.
    Yes, I could very well relate to some of the areas you pointed out in this post.
    I receive many such one line or one word comments on a daily basis and to point out this trend I have posted an article on my page under the title “Philipscom comment policy” even after publishing that post I still get a load of comments in my inbox and sadly i send them all to my spam box.
    Thanks for pointing out the reasons why your comments are not approved.
    Keep sharing
    Have great time of sharing
    Have a wonderful and profitable weekend
    Best
    ~ Philip

  2. charan Avatar
    charan

    Honest post on how to submit comment on others blog. Most of the people do always silly things when they comment like in name section use keyword and the comment is not related to the post. Then how come the blogger will approve. First thing we should respect the blogger who is sharing the knowledge with us and give the decent comment on the post if any points are missing we can add our opinion in the comment. Thanks for sharing, Istiak Rayhan.

  3. rohit panchal Avatar
    rohit panchal

    Hey Istiak,
    Actually I am SEO beginner, your tips will definatelly help me to learnt about blog commenting process. Thanks for sharing this information, I hope you will guide to me next time with new thing.

    1. Istiak Rayhan Avatar
      Istiak Rayhan

      Hope so. Let me know if you need any help.

  4. Ranuka Avatar
    Ranuka

    Hey Istiak,

    Most bloggers have added a page called comment policy to their blog. So, it is better to read comment policy page before commenting.

    1. Istiak Rayhan Avatar
      Istiak Rayhan

      Though I never read the comment policy before commenting, but it can be a good practice to take a look the policy.

  5. Kamlesh Sharma Avatar
    Kamlesh Sharma

    This post is very helpful for that new bloggers who are really wants to get backlinks by comments.
    Thanks for sharing this content and i think that i will never do these mistakes whenever i write comment on any blog. :)

  6. Manik Avatar
    Manik

    Hello Istiak,

    Great post indeed with some great points. When I comment on others blog I always try to drop a valuable comments with some appropriate words. And set up Gravator, It’s really help to get comments approved.

    1. Istiak Rayhan Avatar
      Istiak Rayhan

      Commenting without adding value is just waste of time. Thanks for the comment.

  7. Sagar Desai Avatar
    Sagar Desai

    Thank god, I am following all ethics.
    nice post, great article such comments are pathetic. I am wasting time to delete it. Even I don’t accept @blogname in full name.

    Nice write up for upcoming bloggers..

  8. Dinesh Verma Avatar
    Dinesh Verma

    Thanks for the valuable information Istiak. Iam trying blog commenting for last 3 months and result is very low. Hopefully after going through this post I can make some efficient blog comments.

  9. Gary Starkman Avatar
    Gary Starkman

    Great post Istiak. I always try to keep my comments as engaging as possible. I have one question, how come saying something like “good post” isnt enough? I feel sometimes that’s all I have to say and I want to make sure the author is getting feedback.

    1. Istiak Rayhan Avatar
      Istiak Rayhan

      Gary, there is noting wrong with the comment “Good Post” if you are the regular commentar of the blog. But if it’s your first time, these types of one line comments create a bad impression.

  10. devender Avatar
    devender

    wow these are great point.I have tried many times to comment for my website but no one approved my comment.And the most important is i have been searching for how to set Gravatar. Now have completed it.Nice tips.